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What makes you different?

13.06.2025 04:34

What makes you different?

Even if that means disappointing your parents and teachers for some time, but believe you’ll eventually make them feel proud.

Not ignoring emotions because they can be destructive. Not underestimating your aspirations because society calls them second-rate.

Long story short, here I am. Being a writer. Doing things I’d always love to do. Sharing my experiences of what I learnt.

I caught my husband of 20 years looking at inappropriate pics of women on TikTok or Instagram. I'm not sure., but when I told him he got mad and made excuses of why they popped up. I then told him how I've snuck on his phone and saw what he's been looking at . We had a horrible big fight. I asked him why did he even marry me when I see the type he likes . Nothing like me, I'm petite, blonde and blue eyes. These women are dark haired dark eyed and have curvy bodies, large breasts, etc. I just don't feel the same about him after this. I can't get over this

Indeed, a number of other factors contribute to your uniqueness, but that’s for you to introspect.

P.S. What’s your idea of being different? Do you have a different point of view?

Don’t drink because everybody does today.

Can you fly an American flag in the UK in your own private property there? What is the UK’s government stance on that? And if yes, do you also have to fly the UK flag or the American flag can fly solo?

Consider a rat who never came out of the hole fearing for his life. He stayed in the dark for years and died one day, unbeknownst.

Everything has shaped me. Friends who gave me their pens and journals. Best friends I never made. Crush that made me write poems while he didn’t care. Romances I’ve missed. Opportunity to become an editor or a news correspondent I missed. I think all this has made me the writer I am.

All of it would have been different, and this life would mean something, at least for him.

How do I maintain and care for granite countertops in a coastal climate like Pompano Beach?

Can you make it?

A govt. job could do it for me. Plus Money, plus security, plus prestige.

C’mon, it’s an opportunity to break the rules, stand out and become ONE of a kind.

Why should the US public listen to Lauren Boebert, the queen of hypocrisy tell us, "We need morals back in our nation" when her real-time video is the heartbeat of immoral? Why does her audio not match her video?

Become different not according to the world, but according to what you like and what you don’t.

What if he’d come outside?

Don’t choose to be an engineer just because it pays well.

Why do Muslims not get HIV/AIDS in spite of having 4 wives and multiple relationships?

Yes, I was not at all happy.

Anxious to get a job, I chose to do what was socially recommended for me. So, I tried. Being a govt. servant. Failed. A Research Scholar. Didn’t make it. A Professor. Guess what?

Not because people show it off and you have to follow the lead.

How do flat Earthers explain the existence of other spherical planets?

You can be fearful and still use it to tame your weaknesses and build your emotional strength.

Experiences: What has happened to me? Have I led a normal life with two parents and two siblings? Yes. Breakups I’ve had. Friends I’ve made. School I have attended. Guides I’ve met. Places I’ve been.

Experiments: My life has been a group of experiments that failed to take off until I resorted to writing.

Why are conservatives banning liberal books? Why are conservatives so offended by the teaching of racism and other topics?

Agree?

Honestly, there’s nothing that makes ‘me’ different.

Tried everything. A well-paying corporate job, govt. exams. Nothing provided me with security. I didn’t have time to myself. Hustling was my name. Didn’t go to parties, travel or anything. Didn’t talk to friends.

Why are right-wing commentators spreading conspiracy theories about Haitians eating local pets in Springfield, Ohio?

If you’ve read this far, let me tell you one more thing.

He would have experienced the miracle called light. Maybe he got better food to eat. Then he got wounded. Then in search of balm, he travaled to the wilderness and found a party of rats, eaten to its heart’s content and danced the night out.

So, what actually makes us all different?

Why do some men want to remain single despite the fact that many women want to have a romantic relationship with them?

Without experiments, is life worth it.

Neither I’m Tesla, who got poor grades in school, nor I’ve grown to invent electric current that powers many electronic devices today. Nor I’m an entrepreneur who is the idea behind the Tesla cars.

I always yearned to go for government jobs because I had a few relatives already into it and doing well with money and security. And here is me, with an arts background, uncertain about what to choose.

Even Captain James T. Kirk was trapped in a woman's body. Don't you think he'd support trans people?

You know how all of this enlightenment came to me.

I experimented. A lot. And now I know I don't need more trials of this kind. I’m writing this today at just the right place from the comfort of my home while it rains outside. While a cold breeze rings music to my senses.

Do anything and everything because you like it. You love it. Do the things that make you go crazy. Things you’d barter your breath for. Things that make your life a rainbow.

I told my 13-year-old daughter that she should never start a fight, but has my permission to end it. She got suspended for ending a fight that some other girl picked with her by hitting her then retreating. How do I handle the school’s response?

Don’t get a partner because you’re jealous of your friends.

So, keep on experimenting.

Being different is being a mess, yet being okay with it.

Is the Donald Trump Bible any different from a regular Bible? Has Trump altered its contents?

Don’t go to the gym because it’s a fitness fad.

I have always wanted to write things. Wrote poetry during my grad and reluctantly left it for preparation of a govt. exam because who’s got extra time for it.

Otherwise, thank you for reading. It was fun writing to you all. Hope it helped you in more ways than one.

I’ve often wondered why fans aren’t deployed on GBBO during warm weather? I’ve seen too many desserts melt (and bakers too…). (I live in Pompano Beach and we try to use fans in lieu of AC as much as possible).

To take out these experiments, accept the asymmetry of your emotions, your eccentricities, aspirations and thoughts for what they actually are. Instead of filtering it through the social system, recognize the difference and apply it in your life.

"Life is a journey, not a destination. Enjoy the ride." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

Being different is being okay with failure, so you know what the dessert of a win tastes like.

Are there any nude pictures of women with big tits?

I am an ordinary human being with the same body structure as you who are reading, you and I have the same material of what our bodies and brains are made up of.

Until the day I choose to listen to myself. I let my subconscious go wherever it wanted me to go. It was not just in dreams I wanted to live, but in real life. Not allowing others to cloud my personality, my ability, my inclination towards philosophy, knack to motivate others, and my indifference towards others’ opinions.

Being different is being a weirdo. And being okay about it.

I know being a writer is no different. But my journey is different. Its unique to me.

“The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.” - Lao Tzu

Take my word. You won’t regret it.

What makes you YOU.

"Be yourself; everyone else is already taken." - Oscar Wilde